Regardless what women think or how women seal most men would never accept or be comfortable with their mate havent slept with 30/100,000,000 in her lifetime. You could now be infected with some genetic disease that doesnt even run in your family. How can that be true when most divorces end for financial reasons?Plus most women cheat because they are being emotionally neglected at home.I just dont know how you would think that most divorces occur because women who have slept around a lot arent satisfied with being with just one man.Where did this all come from? @NATASHAYOU ARE CORRECTIT DOESNT MAKEONE BETTER BUT IT DOES MAKE YOU WISER THAN THE GIRL WHO HAS BEEN WITH 100 PLUS PARTNERS. If nothing else you LOL ! Do it as soon as possible! Why can a man act one way, and be a male whore, but as soon as a women states anything in reference to men and sex, she is a whore? You are correct that you cant do anything about the man before you being bigger but I most certainly believe you can still be better. oh,stacy,you live and learn.bigger fish too fry. She is everything you would want a woman to be, and you feel an awesome connection with her. The idea that a large percentage of dudes do want to settle down or have only LTR's shouldn't be news to anyone. For me it does matter a lot, I've had both girlfriends who had a lot of partners and others that had a few, and the ones who had a lot of partners always turned out to be crazy, so no thanks . And for the women who cry out that the number of partners doesnt matter, then why not just be honest. I know it would be for me. It matters. Even research has provided proof that men do desire promiscuous women but only temporarily for sexual purposes. The Student Room and The Uni Guide are both part of The Student Room Group. So sure, women can be sluts and then claim they have grown, and changed, and moved past that time of their lives. I appreciated the honesty and had no problem with it. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: Imperial House, 2nd Floor, 40-42 Queens Road, Brighton, East Sussex, BN1 3XB, Taking a break or withdrawing from your course, FFS IDK WT HAPND 2MY QUESTION AND I DIDNT GET TO READ THE REPSONSE IF U HAVE As @ BIO, 2023 entry A100 / A101 Medicine fastest and slowest offer senders, TSR Community Awards 2022: Favourite Oldie - VOTING OPEN, BBC Fast Track Production Apprenticeships 2023. Men spread seed and women try to attract the best seed they can find. I practice EFT (emotional freedom technique) to get rid of emotional baggages which i guess he couldn understand. thought out and weighed heavily with her morals and standards. I was always very in tuned with myself, much more than any other woman I knew. I dont have too much to say about this, because I pretty much agree with most of it. I could care less but its true. The number of sexual partners a woman has had does not determine what type of woman she is. Because mens focus on a Its difficult. Any woman who behaves this way doesnt deserve commitment from me or any other man. That little double-standard pointing finger that got as part of your hand needs to do a serious u-turn back to the purity? Most men dont want to marry a person who is in effect a man with a vagina. I wouldnt want you to spoil any future postings and have you divulge any top secret information on my behalf. Heck, Ive even dated a slut, for a year! Though neither worked out I had two completely different experiences. Self-Confident. But you know what, screw it. And when your whore whoops I meant wife has a flashback during intercourse and screams calls out Kobe just know, she not cheering for the Lakers. So what do men typically like? And realize having sex with a lot of people has its consequence you cant always have your cake and eat it too so **** smart and **** protected. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. You look down on my age group, and yet the concept of girls sleeping around . i could never date no one thats slept with a lot of people. I totally agree with you. I like how you caught yourself on that : ). I'm looking for ways to reflect on this situation so I can movie forward in not let my toxic behavior leak out. Well life just got a whole lot better for you, because you've found what we all look . As far as cheating goes, even the most decent girl will cheat if a guy is attractive to her- given the time and place. In my attempt to be understanding, I heard her out about everything including listening to her tell me that she was very intoxicated, was caught off guard each time (wasnt planned), liked ONE of the guys, and that the other guy was his best friend/roommate. I applaud you Stephan for SOME of your opinions on this matter and for standing your ground. Pregnancy. By the help of the Queen mother _= A RUNS GIRL TURNS TO BE A MILLIONAIRE !!! I have a past love interest who you can say is the one I regret letting go in my life the most. These are odds I wouldnt take. Leave this poor woman alone she doesn't have the issue you do. If a woman chooses to be a slut, there is a price to pay for that behavior with many men who will forever disqualify her from consideration as a serious partner to settle down with. For some other context I am 20 and she is 19 and I got out of a 3 year relationship around last September and after that started on this self improvement/PUA stuff a few months ago as I felt lost in the single world but I have not had any results with it and it makes me feel like some stupid beta who's only trying to get into a relationship because a girl is showing interest in me but fuck man we really do click on a ridiculous level. In the end your selling yourself short. The past does matter, because granted imagine sleeping with the man or woman, exchanging fluids. give detailed information it will stick in their mind for the rest of their I have a BUNCH to say, but first lets address the wear and tear issue, it obviously has some relevance physically, but I would say it is mostly mentally destructive. So when they say save yourself for the right one remember the word ONE u can say girl see whats out there see what u like live life but remember u are not only keeping apart of that person u sleep with in you, you are also exposing that person to your future kids and shaming your future spouses bloodline stop trying to justify being a hoe. but that did not bother me. Well said. If I find out a girl I am dating has slept with 50+ people at a young age, shes gone. They want a woman, someone different than they are. eliminated the need to be selective by being careful in terms of sex, due to Do you know that DNA from every Man U sleep with gets in your blood and stays in it for a very long time? Im gone from a serious thing..dont get me wrong, ill keep her around and have sex with her, but no emotion will be devoted to her. what an stuck I swear this world has turned into Sodom and Gomorrah all over again.. And those who see insults where there are none typically have multiple issues as well. Just understand we have all done things that the next person may not agree with. Many women have overlooked certain needs just to be able to get themselves married. Then she knocked on a door and a guy in his underwear opened it, and she walked in and closed the door. N most of the time the dudes around you have the same type of woman. Do you think she Will she affected by my departure? For good or bad N women should respect themselves, and men should as well! She loves you, and regardless of how anybody else wants to view her, it only matters how you view her. they hold higher standards for their partners, as they should. Ive read a couple of your blogs, and I think youre a great writer with even greater things to say ! As you stated, it ultimately shouldnt affect the current situation. So basically after that she ended up just sleeping with a lot of foreign guys. She is still the same woman she was before she told you the number, the only difference is how you will now choose to process it and treat her. As simple as that, why be ashamed or beat yourself up over a number if numbers didnt define a hoe then her actions would. So I must be doing something right for her to love me. and you excel in other areas it can balance this out. I mean really whos want to marry a woman that a lot of guys have allready seen whats meant to be special between you too..really? So when u have kids a small part of another mans DNA is in your kids. Men are different shapes and sizes therefore I beg to differ. Be flexible but not too much. I appreciate you sharing that. Who has the power there ??? In some round-about way it felt like it broke my heart, I dont really understand why, because past is past right? If you can't, she'd be right to drop you. Thinking about it more actually I should just avoid these jokes as it could be an avenue for the toxicity to leak out. Some women can have a very low number and be as emotionally damages (if not more) then other women with a much higher number. To bring YOU back to reality, every PERSON has both sides of the coin, not just men. We are happy. Be happy you have a girl. I understand your position but I think you are not properly receiving the message of this article. However, a girl can easily disqualify herself from consideration if her number reveals her to have lived life as a raging slut. I believe this because I have been with someone that had many many partners. Remember every saint was once a sinner down and every sinner can become a saint and stand tall. Be willing to compromise on some things, and she should be willing to compromise on some things as well. The divorce rate in the US has been declining since 1982 along with the marriage rate, and cohabitation is a big reason for it. So the past could be the the reason they have a story to tell. Being of the younger generation (twenties in college) you often here a lot men degrade women for sleeping with plenty others but rarely hear the men being treated the same. Awesome! last I will say is women can go abt sleeping, its okay if thats What u want Common sense. You are not sexually compatible) and who or what is the judge of what bettering yourself even is? What if I were to continue with her and have kids? Yes it matters. Men should realize that a low number of partners You never know what a persons background isunless they tell you. I'm not sure if she has cheated in the past and while I want to ask that could come off in a really bad way which I want to avoid. She claimed that her promiscuity was in the past, but later on I found out it was still in her present. 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